Addicted to Psychic Readings

Posted on April 3, 2010 at 3:41 PM

The very term addiction means you have an unhealthy attachement to something..it may be alcohol, drugs, food, unhealthy relationships.

In this case we are discussing an unhealthy addiction to needing to know. Needing to know your future life. If your already feeling vulnerable after a traumatic experience, it really is not always the ideal time to get this type of reading. I come across many who tend to over latch on to what is told to them and even though readings can be very productive for many, helping them to realize their true potential many readers out there do not work on a deeper level and rarely explain that the messages the receive are merely a guideline and your choices in life will influence the outcome of those messages passed on.

Been a Psychic myself I also take a holistic approach and in truth do not feel its right to do God's Job or potentially set someone up for a fall. My main role is to help you let go of the past and anything that may be blocking you from having that happy relationship with yourself and others. Its also to help you live in the now and let what you believe now help you create the future you desire. All to often many get over addicted and need to know what the man they fancy wants. In truth when you sit back and think of this deeply, your tapping into someone else personal space..is this right? Is this emotional rape? I believe so. I think if a the energy and info on this comes forward freely, so be it..but if you have ever found yourself trying to please your client..stop now...as this is emotional rape..you have no right to do so. Nor does the client have any right to wish to over know there partner.

Sadly I so often see some that just dont get this and rant and rave when what they want is not delivered...hmmm but what we want is not always whats good for us. I find all this energy is very much stuck in the root chakra and those that need to control their futures are not allowing for the possibility of all that is. Infact it can become a major block to their happiness. Root chakra issues present deep fear of abandonment and insecurity...the question is you must ask yourself if you find that you always need to know, is what part of you does not trust what will be will be? What part of you is to scared to live in the moment?

If You Find Yourself in any of the following then you need to question yourself

• Going to a Psychic Advisor more than Once a Month
• Getting over Dependant on them to help you make minor decisions in your life
• Psychic Hopping (Going from one reader to another to get their view)
• Spending large amounts of money that could be well spent on Therapy

The notion of changing readers often is due to your waiting to hear what you want to hear.

Having too many readings can leave you often in a more confused state and you suffer from information overload. Those with a tendency to obsessive behavior or who tend to be nervy need to avoid having readings and seek a more responsible method of finding solutions. A good reader will keep tabs on how many times you have readings and will decline if she or he sense deeper issues beyond their capabilities. Its up to you then to take responsibility for

yourself.

Many people tend to put Psychics and Mediums on a pedestal and often treat them as God...believing they know everything. This is not the case and one must remember every Psychic makes mistakes and may interpretate the message wrong.

I have met personally many who are recovering from a bad Psychic Reading experience and it can take time to fix what has been planted in their minds.

We as humans are often very perceptable to other peoples views and opinions. Imagine the impact of a negative reading on a vulnerable person. It is better for a person to tell the psychic they are not happy with a reading to progress and allow themselves to absorb negative conditioning.

Its like a person who for example is going through a relationship break up and wish to know will their partner come back and by telling them they will, will set this person up for heart ache. What if this is not the case as you truly cant know how another will react. What happens to the heart of the person who lives in hope...they block all other avenues of happiness by doing so and they also block all parts of healing that needs to occur in order to begin to let go. Not so hot and are you really serving them by filling them with only a 50% chance of having what they wish.

The best way to get the most out of your reading..is to stay in neutral and take it lightly. Remember nothing is set in stone and a good psychic will tell you the truth and not paint fluffy pink clouds around what they get.

Always practice saftey and space out your readings. Set a side what you can comfortably afford to pay and do not pay any more than that. Be wise in who you allow into your space and ensure that they disconnect there energy from you after. insure you also do the same.

If you feel uncomfortable say so..if your reader is genuine they will understand and come to some level of solution. Its advisable also to seek readers who have good experience in the field and can provide evidence of this on request. Its also benifical if they have a holistic background and a good awareness of the humans emotional needs.

Practice caution but enjoy also knowing that a good reading will benefit all aspects of your life.